Feb 9, 2017|
Tommy talks to Dr. Karen Ruskin, marriage and family therapist & author of "9 Key Techniques for Raising Respectful Children, cell phones and parenting. Tommy also talks to Darcia Narvaez, Prof. of Psychology at Notre Dame, about holding your babies instead of letting them cry.
Tommy talks to Kevin in Metairie about his wife's need for medication to cope with constant, chronic pain.
Tommy talks to WWL-TV reporter Meg Farris about a new report that New Orleans had more drug-related deaths than homicides.
Tommy talks to State Representative Cameron Henry about the current state and the future of TOPS.
Tommy talks to David Howard, Professor in the Dept. of Health Policy and Management at Emory University, about the state of Obamacare going forward.
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No. Choke and and everything else because she felt like she is being abandoned and and its ideas don't seem earning good can come out of that are now this conference this so called all new stock L that's what the heck of lot of it was about twenty years ago as a you're supposed to do and now isolating us study that says. Note you know one. It's better to do it yeah feels right to you and take them in level make it suit feel secure doctor Karen Ruskin joins us right now she's a friend of buyers marriage and family therapist author of nine key techniques. For raising respectful children. And a daycare center in Texas. It's gone viral I put assigned talent parents get off their phones and pay attention of the kids. And who do you agree with here do you agree with the daycare centers that none of their business. And Heidi handle electronic devices with your kids. Andy raise you kids by the book and what experts say it would feels right to use now again the experts and my daughter was out Tony was of babies at Lehman and credible and crime let them learn to be on their own. I couldn't do it she seems pretty well adjusted now doctor Karen Ruskin good morning Radio One. Good morning pink you know how I. I'm doing well I can't tell you how many times I looked at traffic isn't revenue around. And then that toddlers in the back gum matter fact armies are quick plug in here. Any at NC state police have released it is six like 95% of infant seats are hooked up the wrong way. And if you go to and is little Ellis. You don't look it up right it's a waste of everybody's time and it puts a child in jeopardy but anyway. And moms on the in the front sieges Gavin Gavin Gavin on the phone and little kids in the back on their own and I just wonder. You know one would mom my kid was small I would use only a time point out different things and explained different things and I always thought that it was always. Teaching time mama she on I mean not formal education but just stuff. I mean you look whether we're talking from the perspective of fatalities. That is and I thought about a month ago. Maybe some here. Listeners are watching happening now on Fox News site at bat phone addiction on the O Reilly factor. Whenever we go through that angle of the day care putting note up to help parents and they picked up there it is but those of down. And they and their kids. I let down your. They become and they become my aunt and things at hand and the people interacting with what you're thinking that it from school but the and you know moment the precious time. Oh. Yeah opportunity happy transition. From school. Welcomed them in and day. Into the back with then he day it is well what is the ample that you can even being the car and interacting and talking. It was Koppel with Mary his latest it becomes in between them so what are they. I've been white relationship that friendly relationship. EAU eight year let them. What islanders what are they looking at what they who are they talking to are talking about in. And how can be more important than the child does. MySpace some down the road EM twenty miles down the road as he got in the hands and right now and I'm telling you that kids can be in college in the blink an NI. And you're gonna regret every moment that you do not spend with them. Andy is it because people think that I don't know that the kids can be there forever or. I'm well. Back in relevant and vote in each mound meant stay pregnant. Teens that. And what are people feeling my tennis from social media wanting to see what somebody has posted. At. Is it immediate step of putting the phone down is it do you do it just in pieces how do you wean yourself off of that phone. So you spend quality time with your children and again I can't believe that I'm even asking that question. Question could be you know let it happen parenting tip right now I think it was the and what they mean it but it. And you are ready to roll out the red packet that it profound and there. We admit that you're now at how well you really hit with here aren't. For example if you're driving in the car but bones after the you know that put it away at eight or they don't look at. Set and you're picking up here you know in advance because I'm black that the own it then no qualities outweigh. So being clear with yourself about what. Putting on your calendar if I put under their wing whack when legally and what you what you need to pick up your kid whatever well put it in your hat. What the limit our and I I don't have been here badly. In that it put it somewhere else. That limit yourself because if you're not as a result it and help him. At W Rhode Island that you're out it's. Well well and it cuts both ways I've seen teenagers sit on either end of a coach in text each other I don't understand what all it's about I don't know wine. But they do and sometimes parents have troubles with the teenagers where they are constantly on the phone and not paying attention anything else that. Family dinners weddings bomb minutes does whatever they go to so Jeanine you've been hanging on for awhile from Hammond good morning your on double WL. Or mine do and no thank you knew. I am doing well organic and coming up. Our town well. Now about leaving children in Korea not pick him up and then moved on. Ignoring him and vaccinated in parliament on. And teacher or there not taught everything I'm pre K fruit network or. End this week. I. Have a chance to save the power. Physical touch. I always tell me that we need we lose the swing me. Now reach out to each other apple and say. At this time to pat on the back. And I did worry sir John you know I'll note that there chemical that are produced in applying. That. Hurry to growth and development. And a child is touched when he killed when. A note that Haiti's poorly in Korea and or not now and not such did not ride they become listless. And they don't make it. But let me talk to dom doctor Karen about their Jeanine thank you doctor Kerry and now when my daughter was. Younger she's warning now but they were they were saying you know you gotta teach him independents and just let him crying in the crib don't take them out. When it's night time they'll adjust and I couldn't do it because issues client and choke and and miserable and like now on why would I want this child thinks she's abandoned especially at night when it's dark. Com has the feeling now or in the teachings on that changed at all the. Lineup. Quote unquote parenting expert here at pediatricians a lot better. You'll certainly get opposing viewpoint and it is believed in. Letting him cry out now and those who believe in. And not an accurate because then able learn how is here in themselves and be nurturing. My philosophy is O line and lenient with what team is active yeah. O line and mean what what you'd get Herbalife coming. That the parent myself. Hey Eric intently therapist whatever. They lie view as a parent as a parent and as a friend as a daughter. Every role that I play. I'm in full agreement if somebody in need is about reaching up and easily and not. Me for. At become a cult this action so whether it is on physical and very of the connection V these. Technology not interacting with. Well whether it's a lot of putts. Infraction they eat with the president and the lack of XP is important. Now they're big time at least it used to own it it means well and very helpful when it comes into action in certain circumstances but what's unfortunate is the abuse it and over. Arm quickly before we run out of time teenagers and dumb. In nowadays there it's there attached to it you talked about an appendage and it really is. How do you and is on just teenagers listening on us and young adults of the same way Heidi you'd studied in the put it down honey unity I get. Are there going to be clinics now for phone rehab. RI. AA. I backed it spending limit you know for at the parent I have seen me and me. The fact that the limit and I think is apparent and this is in the room at Italy and I doesn't and that. That's what it Soledad and limit Dillon with helping them are and I'm a lot at the about the if you add it. That's what the rules are with your isn't it after it began to determine wit and many are talking about making healthy really does. They will then meet and where and well. They. And let me go back one step if you plan on having children. That should be your number one job in life he should realize that is the most important thing you're gonna have to do. Oh I'd say to the rescue life wouldn't think. They take Caro home. I mean yeah are you signing up for a lifetime is what I'm sane. It's easy to say you know when they're eighteen and on and it's true trust me if you think about and a young if you are young person using him on Yemeni kid right now. Keep in mind it'll be the rest your life just think about it before you do it thank you doctor appreciate your time. Doctor Karen Ruskin marriage and family therapists author of ninety techniques respectful children. How do you handle it with the the kids in the car and an infant seats money tax and union go to the whatever troop I headquarters and I'll show you how to casinos you're not sure to make sure everybody safe but. T do it are you on the phone. Maybe one child in the backseat and it's a cult it doesn't really has to be made attacks comes in David about day interacting with your child. And it's as you know what my son I was in the got a WL every morning on the way to school and have conversations about whatever yell or talking about. I think that card time. Is. Done. A divided attention time and should be given to you children and I agree and some other attacks come in and saying you know wide. The you'd putting a child in danger if you gathered on the phone does you probably really shouldn't be on the phone and drive in anyway out ya good point balls most things not right here you think the average person knows what dig in into Winamp which now they'll. I don't think so I mean I think I think maybe god even set up that. You got some cells and it. It does is like god I. And yes I'd like David coming out like Evan like. Did knee surgery when peoples have sued done at the same time because of TV on if you need them both Leno and get them both on the same time. They're afraid that you and get one done and after that you'll say no. No thank him there are not gonna hear about it it's exactly and music we gonna and it Darche and our revised professor of psychology at Notre Dame good morning and thanks to comment on. I you're welcome good morning Q yeah actually in the state that it got published recently. Where we asked the doubts about the early childhood in the least idea young children. Development has done at the young kids and their parents. But the study looked. Aaron what we call the at all now. Every animal has announced short term then yeah I'll you'd turn into well functioning creature. Very Smart intelligent pitcher. And somehow we've forgotten human being at Aetna students are young and so are examining how important characteristic are so that includes blocking the faction. Play can to feeling our family togetherness attempts really nasty people 600 adults about their background match. And we found that indicate now out. Any out here radical model threatening letter really experienced that feeling securely attached to signal that they are allergy. I'd better mental well. Much anxiety depression. Better ability to take the perspectives of other people. And then. I'm better. Kind of a more open hearted kind morality. Instead of itself protected reality been a lot of ordinary I don't know. And just wonder how we got away from that because intuitively when I had my daughter and you know she's wanting now but. Com the AD you know I tried that these we tried to keep the child in the crib thing for about a minute amendments. The port on was was crying and joke and she was crying so much in. Cycle how can leaving a young child like that. Feeling abandoned one of all things it's dark be good for anybody or anything you didn't make sense to me intuitively. The ads and on our cultures and gotten away from understanding that it's important on the compassionate care and instincts. And batons. What they need and that's something that's built Internet AD AD integral while they need to be right neared parents pretty much like. Caring and rocking and holding it makes the brain. You compromise and agree ships into the you know strapped. And strength kill law narrow little networks in the name on it at eight. I wish I could be nicer than this. I think a lot of parents do it because it's almost like out of sight out of mind we can be alone and that's what they said the Dusan we're gonna do it. But I do as he you don't insane or what should it be better and thinking man but I'm out. What I it's unfortunate that and they get that impression to appearance in eighty plants. The waterworks while it should be quiet in the corner particularly to take lightly on. Right or toys even where you can take him down off the shelf and play with a when you won Nance on the Orix. And how did. When it comes to phones and so forth did you study include Dan. I'm not that steady we are looking at that electronic media. A big cats yeah parents I know our spending and look at on the Pakistan understand it and I'd AD. I can understand it's important for brain development structure Ike isn't. When your breast see you do acts. But in a debate right. That stand. And kidney back. This evidence now optional add it bit you can diagnose stress on kids ought to hit them if they look at people. I at six months of age that we haven't had much practice straight down. And they. Huntington remembers that they should be Willman an eighteen month. It is that's scary. Mob just. Out that means that you should scare me like Aaron will influence eighteen months so keep them calm and happy. And then their brain and grow and pleasant personality. I appreciate your time doctor really do wish we had more time to go and this remaining come back Monday. I have a great day out but don't they are should know armed by as a professor of psychology at Notre Dame when we come admiral talked a councilman James Gray about what the new loans City Council will consider today. And they are considering a resolution opposing president trumps travel ban. We think about that. And I guess it goes to do you want to any refugees from those seven countries and Nordstrom's store. On to settle here. In the new loans area were also to talk to Jim Donald in Louisiana commissioner of insurance. About what you need to know if you were affected by the tornado about filing insurance claims after the damage. And a hail storms and everything else and I would ask you dead if you. In the past. Have had a bad experience with a contractor I don't know that we necessarily need names to complicated legally. But I would ask you to call in and tell its story as a cautionary tale so other people. If they find themselves in the same situation. As it's happening. Remember wait a minute that's what does exactly with a guy on the woman on debit WL was talking about it. And they don't make that same mistake so if you have been ripped off by a contractor. Or you made a mistake after hail storm more severe weather or maybe you just decided to remodel. Mom let us now to 60187. Knew we'd love to hear the story the song by the way it was I'll make love to you in the group was boyz to man let another one for yet. Tomorrow morning.